If you’re a bottom that experiences pain during anal sex and are absolutely sick and tired of it, as you should be… Keep reading, because I’m gonna show you a super easy way to start having painless sex as a bottom. 

About a month before I started having anal sex as a bottom in 2019, my gay friends warned me that bottoming always hurts and that I need to just suck it up and follow through with it if I want to have a good time with a man. I was confused because I thought, “why would gay men get their asses pounded if it’s as painful as they make it seem?” Like, not everyone has a pain kink. Right?

Wrong. I banged a few weeks after that and girl, when I tell you it was literally the most painful experience of my life. Guess how long I lasted, like in minutes? Wrong, go lower. Wrong again. I lasted about 5 seconds with an average sized penis inside my ass. 

We used TONS and TONS of lube and I still felt excruciating pain literally every millisecond of the way. I legitimately started sweating from the nerves and couldn’t even focus on being turned on, like I was flaccid as fuck and girl he ended up being flaccid as fuck as well. 

To make matters worse, this person was the hottest man I had ever met in my life, who was also the person that made me realize that I was gay. And on our first meeting, neither of us finished. I had to leave empty handed. And I was not invited back. I cried for weeks. 

You see, this was a huge problem for me because I love being a bottom. I love being submissive and taking it from the back, especially from super hot dominant guys. Deep down, I had a feeling that there was no way that “sucking up the pain” was the key to getting fucked in the ass. 

Back then, there were no bottoming TikTok’s or YouTube tutorials on how to avoid pain during anal sex, so what did I do? I went to the local sex shop in Los Angeles, for the very first time in my life, and harassed the employees there into helping me with my sex problems.

They walked me through the store (it’s a very fun store, by the way) and pretty much told me that douching, like, cleaning your ass, isn’t the main solution that you need to reduce pain during sex, which I honestly didn’t know. I initially thought that if you just cleaned, the pain would just magically disappear because your poop is gone. I know, I was pretty naive.

Anyway, these employees mentioned to me that the key to bottoming pain-free is through training. Training your butt. With butt plugs and dildos.

At the time, I knew what dildos were because they’re just toy penises, but I had never seen a butt plug or understood their purpose, I guess? I’ve always just assumed that they were sex toys that people used every once in a while to try to get a prostate massage or something, I never thought that they would be essential to somebody’s preparation process. 

Anyway, so I bought this blue butt plug that I still have and use today and a giant dildo that I lost in my mom’s house somewhere and I got to work. 

At first, I wasn’t really sure how long I was supposed to leave it in for each session. I used to think that sleeping with a butt plug in was actually the way to go, because I thought it’d be like ~effortless stretching in my sleep~ but that ended up being not great because the lube would dry out and then it’d be harder and more painful to get it out of my butt so don’t do that.

I also wasn’t sure about the size I should use, on the days that I’d be seeing him versus on the days that I would like prepare on my own… I didn’t know if I should use a butt plug that’s almost as big as his penis because sometimes if you jump straight into a bigger size without starting small, it could actually do more harm than good.

Most importantly, I didn’t know the most effective time to use a butt plug with the goal of having painless sex. Should I use it daily in my own free time? Should I use it the night before I plan on having sex? Should I use it right before I have sex?

These were all questions that were answered to me over three years of having sex about twice a week with that guy that I mentioned earlier, actually. I’ve learned through having sex, how to make it feel better and to not wanna die because of the pain that it could bring. I’m sure you’ve been looking for a solution for a while now, because why else would you be here.

Good news - I have a solution for you. And that solution is this stretching kit that I’ve created for you and for anyone that is finally ready to have painless sex as a bottom.

You can click here to grab one, or continue reading for more information.

You no longer have to scour the web or ask your friends about your sex toy questions because I just saved you all of that time and effort by offering you my stretching kit!

This kit has everything that you need to successfully reduce pain during sex as a bottom.

It includes, first, my favorite butt plug that has the most effective size and shape in stimulating your prostate and loosening up your ass. I learned that I loved the shape of this first butt plug that I bought, but felt like it was too big and that a smaller size helped me get ready for a dick a lot more effectively.

Next, a container of the best water-based lube that you can put on your toy without wearing down its material. Fun fact, your sex toys are most likely made out of silicone, and using a silicone-based lube on your silicone toy will wear down the material of your toys. Good news - this lube is safe and good.

We also have an instructive tutorial on how to insert this butt plug safely in your ass. It’s really hard to find a good tutorial on how to put this in your butt - I’m here to say that it’s not difficult anymore.

Last but not least, a personalized thank you note - handwritten by yours truly, because I genuinely love you and want the best for you and your sex life.  

My stretch kits are available now for $59.99! Click here to grab one!

A $59 investment to stop having painful sex… forever. No, literally, like this butt plug has lasted me almost 4 years. And it’s still good as new. 

Tell me, is $59 not worth getting rid of all the stress that you have every single time you’re about to have sex, worried that you’d have to call it quits early?

Is $59 not worth having portable toys that you can bring pretty much anywhere, allowing you to bottom without pain anytime at any place? 

Is $59 not worth an entire tutorial on how to safely insert an entire butt plug in your butt, avoiding all the ways you can potentially hurt yourself and bleed if you tried this without my guidance?

$59 is literally just 3 drinks at a nice bar. That’s a fucking steal, if you ask me. 

Go ahead and click on this link right here to grab yourself KEV'S STRETCH KIT!