“Asian+++”

I understand and respect preferences but this is just weird. I feel like nowadays it's definitely cooler to be asian, so like, that's great. But to put this on your profile? EYE.

“No asians”

Again, I understand and respect preferences but this is also just weird. It's cool to like w...

“Masc for masc”

These guys aren’t masculine they are insecure. If these guys hit you up, don’t trust them.

“Fit Only”

It’s normal to like fitness, but some guys have this as their literal name on their profiles. Like what in the-

If you hit me up because I’m fit, and your name is “Fit Only” li...

Don’t be too clingy.

I know this applies both ways but the jokes I’ve seen online, about bottoms being needy... Like there’s truth to them.

Take it from me, showing him too much affection: instant turn off.

Give a little mystery, a little cold shoulder here and there.

You'll be irresistible. 

As gay dudes, I’m sure you know that people have come up with lots of different stereotypes for us. One of my favorite ones is the idea that we all have AIDS. I love when people think that all we do is have sex with each other and give each other lovely diseases.

This is no hate to anyone that has ...

1. SEE OTHER PEOPLE. 

I get it, instant gratification. And I guess everyone’s different.

But in my experience, these nights end with bad decisions and lots of tears.

Like, a lot of them.

I just feel like we're always going compare everyone that we meet to him and until we get to a point where we...

Or I guess, just dating facts in general.

1. Being disgustingly obsessed with a man is not attractive.

If you’re the friend that’s known to only complain about the same dude in the same situation over and over again, you’re not being good to your friends or to yourself.

Process things on your o...

I love all men but to get in my pants, you've gotta check off these boxes.

Bottoms let me know what you think and tops, take some notes.

IS DOMINANT ✅ 

I’m not going to shut up about this because this is THE GREEN LIGHT, okay. Dominant tops are just a different species that attract me in like cra...