Don’t be too clingy.

I know this applies both ways but the jokes I’ve seen online, about bottoms being needy... Like there’s truth to them.

Take it from me, showing him too much affection: instant turn off.

Give a little mystery, a little cold shoulder here and there.

You'll be irresistible. 

As gay dudes, I’m sure you know that people have come up with lots of different stereotypes for us. One of my favorite ones is the idea that we all have AIDS. I love when people think that all we do is have sex with each other and give each other lovely diseases.

This is no hate to anyone that has ...

*This is not for everyone - just what works for me and Ben.

Let him take control.

Tops love dominance. Like, whenever I try to make a move, Ben literally goes, "no, no, no, you don't do that - I do." 

So, if this sounds like your man, let him guide you through the night! He’ll definitely apprecia...

Or I guess, just dating facts in general.

1. Being disgustingly obsessed with a man is not attractive.

If you’re the friend that’s known to only complain about the same dude in the same situation over and over again, you’re not being good to your friends or to yourself.

Process things on your o...

 Basically, things that he does to me that make me want to throw up (but like, in a good way).

 1. HUGS FROM BEHIND.

When he’s cooking or making a drink, or doing anything standing up, just creep up behind him and slowly give him a warm, tight hug from behind.

And then slowly rest your head on ...

I’ve definitely experienced a lot as a gay person ever since I officially became gay when I was like 20 years old.

Let’s recap. My first bottoming experience lasted 5 seconds because I didn’t know a single thing about bottoming, my first love was with somebody that was in a relationship with somebo...